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8 of Cups

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This card shows that you are at a turning point (8) emotionally. There are more emotions inside you, but you don't know what to do with them or which one to consider or listen to. You want someone else to choose for you; take responsibility in the future.
Emotional conflicts with those around you, a desire to be more validated and loved, but taking control of your situation isn't easy. The card shows with its number (8) that you have come a long way in relationships. But you may not always be able to absorb everything from those around you or want to take it to heart because you also need to take responsibility for your actions.

It is an emotional turning point. As more changes occur in one's interaction with other people, feelings flow from different directions.
It's hard to grasp what's there - You fear getting dumped. You can give false love for fear of not getting any love for you.

Love
Now is the time to reflect on why you need more affirmation. What makes you, possibly a partner, feel anxious, a lack of community? Learn to take responsibility for yourself and your actions. You don't care what others think, they are not in your experiences. Only you are in your experiences; what makes you feel such insecurity that you are prepared to turn your back on the community of the experience? Only you can choose to feel a sense of belonging, that everything is fine as it is, that everyone has theirs, on your own. You feel misunderstood, set aside, afraid to show who you are or what you want, waiting.

Past
You have lost something, missed the chance, and were left out or without what you longed for. You've had a hard time deciding; You've slipped away.
Present
You are in the middle of thoughts, finding it challenging to get anything done, lonely, insecure, and doubting yourself. It is hard to feel at home outside of a relationship.
Future
You don't follow your longing, become an outsider, and feel dissatisfied and left out. Unable to get it right in a relationship, strong doubts from both sides.
In the East (Work)
You may mistrust the whole society, you don't like your profession, or you don't find the right job no matter what you do. You don't seem to fit in whatever way you do, but maybe it's because you feel sorry for yourself. You create limitations instead of seeing your right sides, trusting that there are those in others, too. Not everyone is looking to take advantage of you or turn your back. They may speak plain language sometimes, but honest people are no better. Try to see constructive criticism for what it is, straighten yourself, stretch yourself, and bring out what you are best at, even when needed.
 
In the South (Love)
You may be a little suspicious of other people and have difficulty letting someone in on life. Instead, you pull away, dream away, and soon realize it's not your turn. Honestly, it's not time to stop feeling sorry for yourself; you have something to give, just like everyone else. Find out what's unique about you, and let someone else enjoy your presence and love. If you dare not, you can never win anything; it's time to start living.
 
In the West (Economics)
You seem anything but happy with life; you probably feel that you don't find the security that you long for, the money we should not talk about. Your concern for the economy can stress anyone in record time; if you don't seem happy no matter what it looks like, you've probably locked yourself in a corner full of restrictions. Why not see what you have instead? Attitude reflects finances; the more you worry, the farther you are from feeling secure; think clearly to get the investments you want. Treat yourself to something that makes life feel more effortless.
 
In the North (Health)
You can be a little well-dejected as well as avoidant. You feel, feel, nothing feels right, right? But if you were trying to be, nothing else, take a moment as it comes. Find everything in you that works, everything you must be grateful for, and maybe you will feel better. The risk is that you feel too much in the wrong direction and miss everything fun and fantastic.
 
In Void (spiritually)
You are unhappy with yourself but always find something to be unhappy about. You probably doubt your entire existence; why? Can't you be grateful for the life you chose to be you; no one else has that opportunity. Bring out your playful side, and enjoy life.