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XII The Victim (Hanged Man)
The Victim (The Hanged Man) shows you can't say no. You have fallen into a self-pity role. You can't do what you want, can't find your own will, and don't know how to make decisions. You've taken on a role you don't want just because you don't dare to speak up and believe in yourself. You might evade responsibility, can't handle it, and would rather be "sick" than speak up. You no longer believe in yourself or your ideals; letting others decide without ensuring you create an imbalance in relationships. You play a role that isn't you.
Victim role. Taking on too much or something unwanted. Experiencing a situation that you feel you didn't choose yourself.
Self-centeredness – many thoughts about yourself. You don't dare to venture into new things and get stuck in situations.
Love
You withdraw and don't feel affirmed; you are anxious, restless, unsure, and doubtful. Stop; a relationship doesn't give you anything. There is no response, no feelings that can be conveyed without powerlessness and insecurity; that's not what you want out of a relationship. You can become a pawn in the game who gets to listen. The Victim is probably one of the worst cards you can get, regardless of the question, because this card makes you feel like a victim of circumstances and everything in life. There's a pattern going on that means you're not getting the desired response.
Past
You have felt sorry for yourself but have nevertheless moved on, let go of the limitations, and dared to take a step forward.
You "hit the wall" and have been subjected to abuse, dissatisfaction, and conflicts that have been difficult.
Present
You are stuck, scared, and shattered. You don't see any possibilities; you've locked in your conditions. You back away from what you are supposed to do instead of being sad, depressed, insecure, and limited when it feels safer.
You're more than stuck; you're terrified. You lock in your opportunities, don't want to see the truth, and don't want to participate if you don't get what you want, but you still don't know what you want.
Future
It would be best to watch out that you don't fall into old negative behaviors, insecurities that can take control, fears, and disappointments.
You are facing resistance, worse than expected, and you should probably review your choices and what you can change in life, entering a period of dissatisfaction, sadness, and a tough time. You should dare to let go of preconceived notions and the planned future.
Personality and Soul
You have a big heart that quickly takes on a bit too much. You always want to be as kind as possible and find it difficult to say no. You believe everything rises and falls with you; you must permanently straighten everything out to find peace and often do so with finesse. You handle everything thoroughly and leave nothing to chance. You are stubborn and won't give up until you get your way.
Yearly lesson
Say No. As soon as you sense this year approaching, saying No is what this year wants to teach you. Setting boundaries and not being exploited. If you have boundaries, it's a relatively calm year; otherwise, everyone will ask for your help with everything, leaving you no chance to catch up with yourself. It could end with you breaking down from exhaustion and sadness since there is no personal space. Some friends might also disappear because you might think they're exploiting you, but be careful not to deceive yourself; maybe you're unclear.